Reality is harsh

When a situation occurs..
rationally, e victim will tell someone bout it..
But how much will the outsider know?
will you update e person of what happen later?
so he/she will get the whole story?
i doubt so..
its under situations like this that ppl will get negative impressions of the culprit rite?

then again..
What is the verdict for the cuplprit?
How much will you believe the culprit?
It may appear that THAT is the reason.. there is no doubt bout it..
But, there can be a hundred n one possible reasons.. or even more..
yes?no?

n wat if e reason is e most mild one and not the most negative one?

logically, if a person is fuming, they will juz ratter anything..
including the most negative reason..
n wats e outcome?
it may b exaggerated.. which oso means untrue.. rite?
n then u had destroyed the image of e person in e other person..
is it a sweeping statement of mine?

does that mean we cant tell others anything?
so as to not ruin things for others??
i dunno..

but i juz got smacked by reality...
e extensive effects..
how to salvage matters??
sometimes it better to leave it alone?
but by not explaining, r we agreeing that its true?
but if we do, will they believe everything?
deep acting and surface acting..
how much is the truth?

e whole stunt made me feel like walling myself up again..
like wat i did in jc..
walking ard like im in my own world with a small grp of frens..
shutting out everybody else..
unconcerned bout anything else besides wat happened in my well..

N here i tot, i can open up again..
coz everybody has their own timetable..
e prob that such incidents will occur is lower..
its e same feeling as being accused rite??
At least in e court, ppl r let off is they r innocent..

Then a kind soul said that...
we should not judge others by their mistakes..
everyone makes mistakes..
no one is infallible..

How many will do that??
Unless it happened to them i suppose..
isnt that e reality?

Sometimes, there r so many sides to it..
n so many possibilities..